你要結婚未?

我一直都覺得婚姻是很不可靠的一個東西
原因是人們居然開始重視愛情了
從前，窮人的婚姻就是男女比較優勢互補，兩個人一起搭夥過日子
根據費孝通的觀察，舊式的婚姻，男女根本談不上什麽感情生活，一大早就起來幹活，幹完了活有了閑暇，男的去找其他男的，女的去找其她女的。 夫婦二人之間很少交流。 雙方有了不滿，吵架的時候，那是他們互相之間交流最多的時候。
社會地位高一點的人呢？ 有為了政治聯姻，為了金錢結婚（比如說有貴族身份的找經商的人結婚）。
但除了傳奇故事以外，歷史上很少有人是因為愛情而結婚的。
哦，別說愛情了，他們結婚之前甚至不需要見面。 I have always felt that marriage is a very reliable thing
The reason is that people are actually paying attention to the love of
In the past, poor men and comparative strengths marriage is two people join as a partner to live together
According to Fei's observations, the old marriage, not to mention what the feelings of men and women live, work up early in the morning, finished the live with leisure, the men went to the other man, woman find its her daughter of. Little communication between the couple. The two sides have grievances, fight, that is their mutual communication between most of the time.
A little high social status of the people? There for political marriage, marry for money (for example, there is nobility to find business people to get married).
But in addition to legend, the history very few people because of love and marriage.
Oh, not to mention love, they do not even need to meet before marriage.