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Marriages are made in heaven and celebrate on earth. The other version of the same saying says, "marriages are made in heaven but the maintenance is done on earth" well both are very true in their own essence.
There is a huge transition when one gets married, the whole life changes, every thing changes, from being a single person, here no more life of one after marriage, every thing is always for two and after few years more then two.
There are advantages and disadvantages of both, remaining single and getting married, lets compare both the forms of life
As one gets married, we start a whole new family, a complete shift from individualism, no more freedom and no more independence, all that is now translated into family and interdependence. One gets lots of responsibilities to fulfill as a couple, life of single person is one with lot of freedom; wherever they want to go, whatever they want to do they can do. They are flying in air like a bird fulfilling their all wishes and got happiness in doing stupid things. On the other hand married person have more and more responsibilities, they can't do what they want. They are like a bird whose wings are cut off. They also some time not able to fulfill their simple wishes as well; unless what ever they do they don't have any sense of happiness, but again it all depends on what kind of spouse one gets, couples can be extremely happy after marriage or may be full of discords as khalil jibran said "Marriage is either life or death, there is no between and betwixt" overall the first major difference between single and married life is a trasfer from independence to interdependence. Generally when we think of marriage, we think of old married couples who have been together what seems to us as forever. But sooner than later, marriage is going to become a very big part of our lives. We need to prepare for it years in advance so when the time comes we are not so overwhelmed that we breakdown. There are many components to marriage: self-respect, selflessness, communication, forgiveness, honesty and enduring to the end.
"Love's not a three way street, you'll never share real love until you love your self..."# In the new Broadway musical, "RENT", Roger shares with Mimi, that he can not marry her unless she loves herself. He can not stay in this relationship unless there is love between them, and that each person loves them self for who they are. In the world today, we can get caught up in the worldly images of Hollywood, which can be very detrimental. "I am a child of God, and he has sent me here, has given me an earthly home with parents kind and dear. Lead me, guide me, walk beside me, Help me find the way. Teach me all that I must do to live with him someday."# When we remember the words to this song we can think of how important we really are. When we can overcome self-doubt and low self-esteem, we can then start to love other people deeply. Through service and dedication to the church we can really know what it means to be a Child of God. In Psalms 82:6 it says, "I have said, Ye are gods; and all of you are children of the most High." This is a great reminder that we do have a Heavenly Father that cares for each one of us. He knows each of our names, and our challenges. The most important thing is to love who you are, and what you stand for. My parents always reminded me when I walked out the door to go on a date or to a party.Marriage is the most important institution of human society. It is a universal phenomenon. It has been the backbone of human civilisation. Human beings have certain urges like hungers, thirst and sex. Society works out certain rules and regulation for satisfaction of these urges.
The rules and regulations, which deal with regulation of sex life of human beings, are dealt in the marriage institution. We can say that the Marriage is as old as the institution of family. Both these institutions are vital .