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当别人找你办事时,最好多听他开口,但自己也不能总闷着,这样会让别人尴尬,不好意思应适当应和两句.自己不愿做的话,不要一口回决(万一你以后找他办事就有点怎么着),也不要找一大堆借口不然让别人一听就知道着是假的,应该顺着在场的气氛,面露真诚,一点一点的推脱,但千万要记住,最好不让别人先开口说出他的难处.
会说话的人，都要懂得创造高潮。他先在前面慢慢营造气氛，把听众一点点带进去，再在大家情绪的高潮，把最精彩的呈现。说话最重要的是要把握重点。对于需要引人入胜的题材，譬如形容你去旅游的经过，你可以按部就班、娓娓道来，但是对于急迫的事，则要开门见山。而所谓的"实话虚说",就是虚说的实话，基本上还是实话，只是说得不够精确，或者说得松散。实话虚说还有个特色，是你可以把"语气"或"语法"掉换一下，内容没改，感觉改了。 When people find you work, it is best to listen to him speak, but they can not always keep our noses, so let others embarrassed, embarrassed, and two should be appropriate. Themselves unwilling to do so, not a return decision (in case After you find him a bit of how the act), or else do not find a lot of excuses to let others know of is a fake, it should follow the present atmosphere, cheeky honest, a little bit of shirk, but do Keep in mind, it is best not let others speak first to say his predicament.
Talking people, should know how to create a climax. He started slowly in front to create an atmosphere, with the audience a little bit into it, and then everyone emotional climax, the most exciting show. The most important thing is to speak to grasp the key. The need for a fascinating subject matter, such as you describe to travel through, you can step by step, his right, but for the urgency of the matter, they have come to the point. The so-called "virtual truth says," is false to say the truth, basically honest, just say not precise enough, or more loosely. Honestly say that there is a virtual feature is that you can "tone" or "grammar" swap look, content did not change, the feeling changed.