Arbain Pernikahan

Pengantar Penerbit
بِسْمِ اللّٰهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ
Segala puji milik Allah Rabb semesta alam. Shalawat dan salam semoga untuk Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam, keluarganya, dan para shahabatnya.
Amma ba’du:
Pada kesempatan ini kami persembahkan kutaib Arba’in Pernikahan yang berisi 42 poin tentang pemuda, pemudi, pernikahan, rumah tangga, dan kaidah umum tentangnya yang sangat bermanfaat bagi siapa saja yang akan menikah ataupun telah berumah tangga. Akhirnya, selamat membaca!
Semoga shalawat dan salam untuk Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘Alaihi wa Sallam, keluarganya, dan para shahabatnya.[]
Surabaya, 1 Mei 2014
Penerbit

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Daftar Isi
Daftar Isi iii
Pengantar Penerbit v
Muqaddimah 1
Poin Ke-1: Bahaya Fitnah Wanita 2
Poin Ke-2: Menikah Cara Terbaik Membendung Fitnah Wanita 3
Poin Ke-3: Menikah Sunnah Para Nabi dan Rasul 3
Poin Ke-4: Menikah Memberikan Ketenangan 4
Poin Ke-5: Menikah Termasuk Kesempurnaan Iman 4
Poin Ke-6: Kesempurnaan Agama Bagi Pasutri 5
Poin Ke-7: Anjuran Menikah dan Penekanan Atasnya 5
Poin Ke-8: Larangan Menunda Menikah Karena Miskin 6
Poin Ke-9: Doa Istikharah dan Bersandar Kepada Allah 8
Poin Ke-10: Perhatian dalam Memilih Pasangan 9
Poin Ke-11: Sebaik-Baik Kenikmatan Dunia 9
Poin Ke-12: Kriteria Wanita Shalihah 10
Poin Ke-13: Kriteria Wanita Idaman 10
Poin Ke-14: Nazhar dan Dianjurkan Cantik Menurut Kedua Matanya 11
Poin Ke-15: Larangan Menikah dengan Paksaan 11
Poin Ke-16: Dibenci Menolak Lamaran Lelaki Shalih 12
Poin Ke-17: Termasuk Sunnah Mempermudah Pernikahan 12
Poin Ke-18: Tidak Sah Nikah Tanpa Wali, Mahar, dan Saksi 13
Poin Ke-19: Mengumumkan Pernikahan dan Walimah 13
Poin Ke-20: Masa Bermalam Pengantin Baru 13
Poin Ke-21: Doa Untuk Pengantin Baru 14
Poin Ke-22: Mendoakan Istri Pengantin Baru 14
Poin Ke-23: Doa Saat Bersenggama 14
Poin Ke-24: Larangan Membicarakan Rahasia Ranjang 15
Poin Ke-25: Keutamaan Khusus Bagi yang Menikah Tidak Selainnya 15
Poin Ke-26: Indahnya Pacaran Setelah Nikah 16
Poin Ke-27: Hak Suami Atas Istri 16
Poin Ke-28: Hak Istri Atas Suami 16
Poin Ke-29: Berusaha Memahami Karakter Pasangannya 17
Poin Ke-30: Perhatian dalam Mendidik Anak dan Melayani Suami 17
Poin Ke-31: Saling Melaksanakan Kewajiban Masing-Masing 18
Poin Ke-32: Saling Tolong-Menolong dalam Kebaikan 18
Poin Ke-33: Perintah Sabar, Lembut, dan Berbuat Baik Kepada Istri 19
Poin Ke-34: Kebanyakan Istri Binasa Karena Tidak Pandai Bersyukur 20
Poin Ke-35: Bidadari Cemburu dan Marah kepada Istri yang Jahat 20
Poin Ke-36: Keutamaan Nafkah Suami kepada Keluarganya 21
Poin Ke-37: Larangan Mengabaikan Masalah Ranjang Suami 22
Poin Ke-38: Keutamaan Bersenggama yang Syar’i 22
Poin Ke-39: Keutamaan Memiliki Anak Shalih 22
Poin Ke-40: Wajib Adil Bagi yang Berpoligami 23
Poin Ke-41: Ancaman Meminta Cerai Tanpa Alasan yang Dibenarkan 24
Poin Ke-42: Keutamaan Berbakti Kepada Suami dengan Balasan Surga 24
Ya Allah, Siapakah Tulang Rusukku? 26
Takhrij Luas dan Tahqiq 27 Introduction to Publisher
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
All praise belongs to Allah the Lord of the Worlds. May peace and blessings to the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, his family, and his companions.
Amma ba'du:
On this occasion we dedicate kutaib Arba'in Marriage containing 42 points on youth, women, marriage, households, and the general rule about which is very useful for anyone who will be married or have been married. Finally, happy reading!
May the peace and blessings on the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, his family, and his companions. []
Surabaya, May 1, 2014
Publisher
 
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table of contents
Table of Contents iii
Introduction to Publisher v
Muqaddimah 1
All points 1: Danger Defamation Women 2
Points 2nd: Single Best Way Stem Defamation Women 3
All 3 Points: Married Sunnah of the Prophets and Apostles 3
All four points: Married Provides Peace of Mind 4
All 5 points: Married Includes Faith Perfection 4
All 6 points: Perfection Religion For Couples 5
All 7 points: Prompts Married and emphasis Topped 5
Points All 8: Prohibition Delaying Married Due to Poor 6
Points All 9: Prayer Istikhara and Lean To Allah 8
All 10 points: Caution in Selecting Pair 9
The 11 points: The best of Good Pleasure World 9
The 12 points: Criteria Women Shalihah 10
The 13 points: Criterion Women's craving 10
The 14 points: nazhar and recommended Gorgeous According Both eyes 11
The 15 points: Prohibition Married to Fain 11
The 16 points: Refused Application hated man Salih 12
The 17 points: Includes Sunnah Simplify Marriage 12
The 18 points: Unlawful Marriage Without Wali, Mahar, and Witness 13
The 19 points: Announces Marriage and Walimah 13
The 20 points: Time Overnight New Bride 13
All 21 points: Prayers for the New Bride 14
The 22 points: Praying Wife New Bride 14
The 23 points: Prayer When Intercourse 14
All 24 points: Prohibition Talking Secret Beds 15
The 25 points: Special Virtue For Married Not selainnya 15
All 26 points: Beautiful Courtship After Marriage 16
The 27 points: Right Husband Wife Top 16
All 28 points Rights Husband Wife Top 16
All 29 points: Trying to Understand Character SPOUSE 17
The 30 points: Attention in Educating Children and Husband Serving 17
All 31 points: Implementing Mutual Obligations Each 18
The 32 points: Mutual Help-Helps in Goodness 18
The 33 points: Commands Patience, Soft, and Doing Good To Wife 19
The 34 points: Most Wife Perish Due Not Clever Grateful 20
All 35 points: Angry Angel and the wife Jealous Evil 20
All 36 points: Virtue Livelihoods husband to the family 21
All 37 points: Prohibition Ignoring Problems husband Beds 22
All 38 points: Virtue Intercourse is Syar'i 22
All 39 points: Virtue Have Children Salih 22
All 40 points: Mandatory Fair Share polygamist 23
All 41 points: Threats Request Divorced Without reason Justified 24
All 42 points: Virtue Dutiful husband with a Reply To Heaven 24
Ya Allah, Who are the ribs? 26
Takhrij Area and tahqiq 27