Dapper - Dating NYC

Dapper removes the busy work from dating sites and apps. Get daily curated matches. When there's mutual interest, Dapper sets up a date. No time wasted on dead end emails, chats or online small talk.

HOW DOES DAPPER WORK?

Step 1 - Log in and tell dapper when you're free for a date.

Step 2 - We notify you as matches become available for the day(s) you picked. Log back in and browse your matches.

Step 3 - When there is mutual interest, Dapper sets up your date at a reputable wine bar or lounge in Manhattan for the night(s) you chose.



WHERE ARE THE DATES?

The date will be in the girl's neighborhood of choice in Manhattan (chivalry is not dead!).


WHAT ARE THE RULES AND WHY?

Dapper ensures that only highly eligible singles are using the service. To make sure of this, we have some rules.

The rules are simple and we're pretty much just looking at you, Guys! We collect feedback after your date. Be gentlemen.

1) No sex on the first date
2) No getting too drunk
3) No asking for racy pictures
4) Guys sign The Gentleman Pledge


WHAT IS THE GENTLEMAN PLEDGE?

My intention for using Dapper is to meet someone for a real romantic connection – not finding an activity partner. I understand that Dapper collects feedback after my dates and will end my membership if I am found likely to have acted like a non-gentleman.

I will not push for sex on the first date. I will be courteous at all times. I know how to dance, at least a little bit. I know the difference between confidence and arrogance. I believe that chivalry is not dead. I know how to cook at least one good meal.