Guide HotDateScan

1. First impressions are always important
Your torn jeans may be lucky, but remember, this will be the first impression your date gets from you. Yes, you should never pretend to be someone you are not, but a girl might like to see that you are proud of your appearance. Do not worry, it does not mean you have to wear a full tuxedo, but having a shower, shaving, using aftershave and putting on something appropriate will help you impress your date and bring you a good start . Now, all you have to worry about is turning the time.
2. Make date plans for a place where you will feel comfortable
You might think you're a gentleman by letting your date decide where you're going on your date, but women often like to see that you can take control. Also, as dating can be an intimidating experience, help cut through these nerves by getting organized to end up in a familiar territory. This will help you feel more comfortable. Though, perhaps avoiding your normal Saturday night pub, as bumping into your comrades might be a bit distracting on your date.
3. Be confident
Women highly value trust when it comes to choosing a guy. If you are a little shy, practice in advance by talking to people you do not know. Or, while on the date, choose a topic that you are enthusiastic about, like a hobby. She will feel your confidence as you speak passionately about it. Many people may also be shy about their appearance. You may not be 6 feet tall with a 6-pack but it is more appealing for a woman to show that you are comfortable in your own skin and happy to be you.
4. Do not make all the speech
On your date, make sure you do not do all the talking. Try to keep what you have to say short and concise. You do not want to start annoying your date. If this date goes well, there will be many more opportunities to share your stories in the future. Do not be afraid of breaks and help mix the conversation by asking your date questions. Listening is important because it shows that you are interested in what he has to say.
5. Keep the conversation fun
Try to keep your conversation light. On your first appointment, you do not want to enter into a thorough conversation about why you do not enjoy your job, or other issues you have had. Women want a guy who can make them laugh. Yes, you must be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating, have fun.
6. Avoid conversation 'ex'
Talking about your ex is a dangerous territory. It is best to stay away from the conversation altogether. Your date will not be interested and it can make things feel awkward between you. If your date shows the subject, try to keep the answers short (without appearing suspicious). Reassure her that your past is history and you want to spend your time knowing her instead.
7. Turn off your phone
There is nothing more annoying than ringtone phones while trying to spend quality time with friends, and it's just as irritating on a date. Do not just put it in silence or vibrate, because you can always be distracted. Turn off your phone completely. If she knows that you have turned off your phone to fully focus on the date, she will appreciate that you take the time to fully engage with it.