Panduan Istri Solehah

1. Al -Anaanah: banyak keluh kesah. Yg selalu merasa tak cukup, apa yg diberi semua tak cukup. diberi rumah tak cukup, diberi motor tak cukup, diberi mobil tak cukup, dll. Tak redha dg pembelaan dan aturan yg diberi suami. Asyik ingin memenuhi kehendak nafsu dia saja, tanpa memperhatikan perasaan suami, tak hormat kepada suami apalagi berterima kasih pada suami. Bukannya hendak menolong suami, apa yg suami beri pun tak pernah puas. Ada saja yg tak cukup.

2. Al-Manaanah: suka mengungkit. Kalau suami melakukan hal yg dia tak berkenan maka diungkitlah segala hal tentang suaminya itu. sangat senang hendak membicarakan suami: tak ingat budi, tak bertanggungjawab, tak sayang dan macam-macam. Padahal suami sudah memberi perlindungan macam2 padanya.

3. Al -Hunaanah:
ingin pada suami yg lain atau berkenan kpd lelaki yg lain. sangat suka membanding-bandingkan suaminya dg suami/lelaki lain. Tak redha dg suami yg ada. 1. Al -Anaanah: many complaints. Who always felt not enough, what is by all not enough. given the house is not enough, given the motor is not enough, given the car is not enough, etc. Not redha dg defense and the rules that were given a husband. Fun wants to fulfill the will of her lust alone, without regard to the feelings of her husband, no disrespect to the husband especially grateful to her husband. Instead of going to help her husband, a husband to give what was insatiable. There just is not enough that.
 
2. Al-Manaanah: Like leverage. If the husband doing that he did not deign then diungkitlah everything about her husband. very happy about to talk about her husband: do not remember the favor, irresponsible, not love and stuff. Though the husband had given her macam2 protection.
 
3. Al -Hunaanah:
a husband who wants the others or pleasing kpd another man's mouth. really like to compare her husband dg / another man. Not redha husband dg imaginable.