夫妻兩人該如何相處 - 婚姻關係

孩子與父母同住屋簷下
夫妻兩人的關係好壞以否
會影響孩子的成長和性格


1、夫妻恩愛 → 孩子性格健康開朗

夫妻恩愛、夫妻關係和睦的家庭，能給孩子良好的家庭環境。
這類孩子的性格會更加平和、開朗、不輕易動粗，由於父母關係很好，孩子也會對婚姻產生美好的感覺和嚮往，能有健康的異性戀。


2、夫妻感情淡薄 → 孩子任性自私
夫妻感情淡薄，兩個人僅靠教養孩子來作為交流話題及維繫家庭，就是人們常說的「以孩子為中心」的家庭。

在父母高度關注下，孩子被過多關顧或干涉，性格會變得任性和自私。


3、強勢媽懦弱爸 → 男孩子膽小、自卑、懦弱

由於爸爸軟弱，大權落在母親手上。在這類家庭的夫妻關係越來越邊緣化之後，母親就會變得日益強悍甚至說一不二。

孩子總會向同性父母一方形成認同，女兒會向強悍的母親認同，久而久之就會變成強悍的女兒，兒子就會變成沒有擔當的懦弱、自卑的兒子。


4、夫妻過早離異 → 孩子冷漠 、沒安全感

很多從不幸婚姻中解脫的夫妻，疏忽了最重要的一點，永遠無法從中解脫的是孩子。

他們內心的創傷往往終生難以平復。

他們的擔憂感、不安全感、恐懼感也許永遠無法醫治。

生活在離異家庭中的孩子，更易發生犯罪和焦慮、抑鬱、敵對、報復、冷漠等心理障礙問題。


5、夫妻常相互指責 → 孩子敏感、愛找藉口、執拗

夫妻常相互指責，這樣的家庭環境，會嚴重影響孩子的處世方式。

特別是當夫妻雙方有爭論時，更容易對著孩子說另一方的不是。

對孩子造成的影響嚴重，孩子以後對父母都不會尊重。而一方不斷向孩子訴說另一方的不是，想藉此讓孩子對另一方不滿，到最後帶給孩子的，也只有傷害。


6、夫妻愛打架 → 孩子喜歡暴力、脾氣暴躁

夫妻吵架對成人而言是很平常及能理解的；但對孩子而言，卻是天塌下來的事情了。他的安全感會受到很大衝擊。

與此同時，孩子也會由於耳濡目染變得喜歡暴力、脾氣暴躁，像父母一樣大吼大叫。

親愛的爸爸媽媽，為了孩子，夫妻兩人該如何相處太重要了。


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The quality of the relationship with the couple whether
Will affect the child's growth and character


1, loving husband and wife → children healthy and cheerful personality

Loving husband and wife, husband and wife relationship harmonious family, to give children a good family environment.
These children's character will be more calm, cheerful, not easy to brute force, due to the good relationship between parents, child marriage will produce good feeling and longing, to have a healthy heterosexual.


2, the couple feeling weak → selfish wayward children
Couple feeling weak, two people alone to raise children as a topic of exchange and preservation of the family, is commonly known as "child-centered" family.

In highly concerned parents, the child was too much interference or caring, character will become self-willed and selfish.


3, strong mom dad → cowardly timid boy, inferiority, weakness

Due to weak father, mother hands power falls. After the marital relationship such families become increasingly marginalized, the mother will become increasingly powerful and even uncompromising.

Children always to same-sex parent identity formation, tough mother to daughter will agree that over time will become a powerful daughter, son becomes no play cowardice, inferiority son.


4, the couple divorced → premature children indifference, no sense of security

Many freed from the unhappy marriage between husband and wife, neglect the most important thing, can never extricate the child.

Their inner life is often difficult to heal wounds.

They sense fear, insecurity, fear may never heal.

Living in divorced family children, more crime and anxiety, depression, hostility, revenge, apathy, and other psychological disorder problems.


5, the couple often recriminations → child sensitive, love to find an excuse, stubborn

Couples often blame each other, such as family environment, will seriously affect the child's savoir-faire.

Especially when both spouses controversial, easier against the other children say not.

A serious impact on her children, the children after their parents will not be respected. The party continued to tell the other child is not, and would like to take your child to the other party discontent, and finally bring the child, and only hurt.


6, the couple love to fight → children like violence, bad temper

Husband and wife is not unusual for an adult and can understand; but for children, it is a thing of the sky is falling. His sense of security will be greatly impact.

At the same time, the child will become due monasteries like violence, bad temper, like parents yelling.

Dear Mom and Dad, for children, the husband and wife how to get along too important.


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